build(cmake): clean up presets, add release/apple presets, cross-platform triplets

Rationalize the preset set to match the project's actual state (past M5):
- Rename dev->skeleton (no-deps stub smoke), m1-dev->dev (default dev preset)
- Drop m2-dev (cache-identical to m1-dev)
- Add release preset (optimized + tests on, symbols kept)
- Strip server-release binaries (-s linker flag)
- Add apple-dev/apple-ios/apple-ios-sim scaffolding presets for XCFramework

Add cmake/voicecat-toolchain.cmake wrapper that auto-resolves the vcpkg
triplet from the host platform (x64-mingw-static/x64-linux/arm64-osx) so
the main presets work on Windows/Linux/macOS without per-OS variants.

Update all docs (building.md, CLAUDE.md, README.md, AGENTS.md, deployment.md,
tech-stack.md, client READMEs) and stale preset-name references in code
comments. No C++ behavior changes — the core was already portable.

core/src/net/transport.h

@@ -4,8 +4,9 @@
  * Design: docs/architecture.md (Net thread), docs/protocol.md §1 (framing).
  * Implementation uses standalone Asio for sockets and timers.
  *
- * The real classes are compiled only when VOICECAT_HAS_NET is defined (m1-dev+).
- * The dev-preset stub definitions below keep the skeleton build green.
+ * The real classes are compiled only when VOICECAT_HAS_NET is defined (dev/release/
+ * server-release — vcpkg deps on). The skeleton-preset stub definitions below keep the
+ * no-deps build green.
  */
 #ifndef VOICECAT_NET_TRANSPORT_H
 #define VOICECAT_NET_TRANSPORT_H