feat(ios): real echo cancellation/NR via native Voice-Processing engine

iOS "voice chat" had echo and no noise suppression: real iOS AEC/NS/AGC
come only from Apple's Voice-Processing I/O unit (VPIO), but the core
plays/captures via miniaudio's plain RemoteIO units, so .voiceChat mode
alone never engaged AEC.

Core (ABI PATCH 1->2):
- vc_set_mixed_output_sink + vc_set_external_playback. In external mode the
  AudioEngine opens no hardware playback device; a mixer-timer thread drives
  on_playback (decode+mix) on a ~20ms cadence and ships the final mix to the
  sink. start() also skips the hardware capture device when the MIC stream is
  external_feed (AudioParams.external_capture).
- New white-box test test_external_playback (drives the timer with no hw).

iOS/Swift:
- StreamDescriptor.externalFeed; VoiceCatClient.setMixedOutputSink /
  setExternalPlayback wrappers.
- IOSVoiceProcessingEngine: AVAudioEngine + setVoiceProcessingEnabled; mic
  tap -> feedPcm, mixed-sink lock-free ring -> AVAudioSourceNode (both share
  the VPIO unit so AEC has its reference signal).
- IOSAudioRouter.currentConfigUsesVoiceProcessing scopes VPIO to the AEC
  presets; SessionState join/leave + reconcileVoicePath() switch paths;
  Voice Chat defaults to speaker; Settings surfaces AEC/NS state.

Known: pending on-device verification; a few bugs to fix afterward.

CLAUDE.md

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ and what's next* read [`PROGRESS.md`](PROGRESS.md); for *design* read [`docs/`](
 > server-mute, channel CRUD, in-app account management, disconnect/keepalive/reaper. Windows
 > WinForms C# client shipped (M4). **macOS AppKit client shipped** — `VoiceCatMac.xcodeproj`
 > at `clients/apple/macOS/`. **iOS SwiftUI client shipped** — `VoiceCatiOS.xcodeproj` at
-> `clients/apple/iOS/`. `ctest --preset dev` green — 23/23 tests.
+> `clients/apple/iOS/`. `ctest --preset dev` green — 24/24 tests.
 > External PCM feed/tap API (`vc_stream_feed_pcm` + `vc_set_pcm_sink`) shipped.
 > **Screen-audio sharing shipped on macOS (ScreenCaptureKit) and iOS (ReplayKit Broadcast
 > Upload Extension → host App Group ring → `vc_stream_feed_pcm`).** See [`PROGRESS.md`](PROGRESS.md).