feat(clients): expose all channel codec params + guest nickname everywhere

Channel create/edit UIs only surfaced a subset of the core's vc_audio_config,
and DRED was exposed nowhere. While adding it, found a latent ABI mismatch:
both Swift AudioConfig and the C# VcAudioConfigNative blittable struct were one
int short of the native vc_audio_config (missing the trailing `dred`), so native
read past the managed struct in vc_create_channel/vc_edit_channel.

- core marshaling: thread `dred` through Swift (Models/Marshaling/toNative) and
  C# (Structs/Models/Marshaling/VoiceCatClient) -- fixes the ABI gap + enables it
- windows: add the one missing DRED checkbox to ChannelEditDialog
- macos: ChannelEditSheet now exposes application, sample rate, packet loss,
  complexity, and DRED (was stereo/bitrate/frame/FEC/DTX only)
- ios: rebuild ChannelEditView into a full create+edit form (all params); add
  SessionState.editChannel + an admin Edit swipe action (iOS had no edit UI)
- guest nickname: add a dedicated `nickname` to SavedServer on macOS+iOS
  (backward-compatible Codable), shown in Guest mode, wired into the guest auth
  path -- guests could not set a display name on either before (only Windows)

Verified: macOS + iOS (sim, arm64) xcodebuild BUILD SUCCEEDED; core ctest 22/23
(only external_pcm aborts on a pre-existing shutdown mutex race; no C++ changed).

clients/apple/iOS/VoiceCatiOS/AppState.swift

@@ -76,7 +76,7 @@ final class AppState {
         // Auth is queued immediately — the core serialises it behind TLS + TOFU.
         switch server.authMode {
         case .guest:
-            let nick = server.savedUsername.isEmpty ? "iOS User" : server.savedUsername
+            let nick = (server.nickname?.isEmpty == false) ? server.nickname! : "iOS User"
             client.authenticateGuest(nick)
         case .password:
             let savedPw = ServerListStore.shared.loadPassword(tag: server.keychainTag)