build: bundle vcpkg as a git submodule, pinned to the manifest baseline

Adds vcpkg as a submodule at vcpkg/, pinned to the exact commit vcpkg.json
already declares as builtin-baseline, so the bundled checkout and the
manifest's resolved port versions can never drift apart.

cmake/voicecat-toolchain.cmake, scripts/common.sh, and
clients/apple/scripts/build-xcframework.sh now resolve vcpkg as:
VCPKG_ROOT env var (external checkout) > bundled submodule. Docs updated
to describe the new one-time setup.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

.gitignore

@@ -14,9 +14,8 @@
 *.exe
 *.pdb
 
-# vcpkg
+# vcpkg (bundled as a submodule at /vcpkg — see docs/building.md §2)
 /vcpkg_installed/
-/vcpkg/
 
 # Generated protobuf
 *.pb.cc