fix(ios): rebuild audio only when needed and stop VoiceOver list churn

Two iOS bugs with the same shape: unconditional rebuilds where a
conditional check belongs.

The audio graph was torn down on every unintentional disconnect and every
foreground transition. A lost connection ran the same teardown as an
explicit disconnect, deactivating the AVAudioSession and so dropping the
Bluetooth HFP link for a transport blip, and foregrounding always called
Reconfigure even though the `audio` background mode keeps the graph live.
Both cost seconds of dead audio on a headset.

Split "session ended" from "transport blipped". Detach unbinds the client
but keeps the session, graph, and route, so a reconnect rebinds to a live
HFP link; the route is parked on stream id 0 so capture cannot feed the
next connection a stream it never announced. StartListening reuses a
running graph, StartMicrophone reuses a running tap of the same width, and
Reconfigure gained a non-forcing mode that no-ops when tap presence,
channel width, and voice processing all still match. Foregrounding now
ensures the graph is running and only reconfigures if it actually stopped.
Route changes, media-services resets, and the stall watchdog still force a
full rebuild.

Every list also reloaded on a model event raised 20 times a second by the
microphone level timer. ReloadData recreates the accessibility element
tree, so VoiceOver explore mode re-announced the row under a dragging
finger and a double tap landed on an element that no longer existed. No
controller ever unsubscribed, so popped controllers kept reloading too.

Move the level to its own LevelChanged event, and reload lists through
ListRefresher, which subscribes only while on screen and only reloads when
the rendered content signature changed. The voice bar publishes its
accessibility value on 5% steps, MoveUserController reloads just its two
checkmark rows, and the chat transcripts skip reassigning identical text.

The changed logic sits on UIKit and AVFoundation types the net10.0 test
project cannot reference, so this carries no tests; the Bluetooth
reconnect and foreground paths need device verification.

clients/apple/VoiceCat.iOS/SettingsController.cs

@@ -9,10 +9,22 @@ namespace VoiceCat.iOS;
 
 internal sealed class SettingsController : UITableViewController
 {
-    private readonly AppModel model;
-    internal SettingsController(AppModel model) : base(UITableViewStyle.InsetGrouped) { this.model = model; Title = "Settings"; model.Changed += Reload; IosAudioRouter.Shared.Changed += Reload; }
+    private readonly AppModel model; private readonly ListRefresher refresher;
+    internal SettingsController(AppModel model) : base(UITableViewStyle.InsetGrouped)
+    {
+        this.model = model; Title = "Settings";
+        refresher = new(this, Signature,
+            handler => { model.Changed += handler; IosAudioRouter.Shared.Changed += handler; },
+            handler => { model.Changed -= handler; IosAudioRouter.Shared.Changed -= handler; });
+    }
     public override void ViewDidLoad() { base.ViewDidLoad(); TableView.RegisterClassForCellReuse(typeof(UITableViewCell), "setting"); }
-    private void Reload() => TableView.ReloadData();
+    public override void ViewWillAppear(bool animated) { base.ViewWillAppear(animated); refresher.Start(); }
+    public override void ViewDidDisappear(bool animated) { refresher.Stop(); base.ViewDidDisappear(animated); }
+    private string Signature() =>
+        $"{IosAudioRouter.Shared.Preset}|{IosAudioRouter.Shared.ForceSpeaker}|{model.Settings.AudioBufferMilliseconds}|{model.ScreenSharing}|" +
+        $"{model.Settings.InputMode}|{model.Settings.VadThreshold}|{model.Settings.InputGain}|{model.Settings.InputNoiseReduction}|" +
+        $"{model.Settings.EventSounds}|{model.Settings.EventVolume}|{model.Settings.SpokenEvents}|{model.Settings.SelfTalkSounds}|{model.Settings.PushToTalkSound}|" +
+        $"{model.Client?.Permissions is { } p && (p.IsAdmin || p.CanAdminAccounts)}";
     public override nint NumberOfSections(UITableView tableView) => 5;
     public override nint RowsInSection(UITableView tableView, nint section) => section switch { 0 => 5, 1 => 4, 2 => 5, 3 => model.Client?.Permissions is { } p && (p.IsAdmin || p.CanAdminAccounts) ? 1 : 0, _ => 2 };
     public override string? TitleForHeader(UITableView tableView, nint section) => section switch { 0 => "Audio", 1 => "Voice", 2 => "Notifications", 3 => "Administration", _ => "Server" };
@@ -69,9 +81,19 @@ internal sealed class SettingsController : UITableViewController
 
 internal sealed class AdvancedAudioController : UITableViewController
 {
-    private readonly IosAudioRouter router = IosAudioRouter.Shared;
-    internal AdvancedAudioController() : base(UITableViewStyle.InsetGrouped) { Title = "Advanced Audio"; router.Changed += () => TableView.ReloadData(); }
+    private readonly IosAudioRouter router = IosAudioRouter.Shared; private readonly ListRefresher refresher;
+    internal AdvancedAudioController() : base(UITableViewStyle.InsetGrouped)
+    {
+        Title = "Advanced Audio";
+        refresher = new(this, Signature, handler => IosAudioRouter.Shared.Changed += handler, handler => IosAudioRouter.Shared.Changed -= handler);
+    }
     public override void ViewDidLoad() { base.ViewDidLoad(); TableView.RegisterClassForCellReuse(typeof(UITableViewCell), "audio"); router.RefreshRoutes(); }
+    public override void ViewWillAppear(bool animated) { base.ViewWillAppear(animated); refresher.Start(); }
+    public override void ViewDidDisappear(bool animated) { refresher.Stop(); base.ViewDidDisappear(animated); }
+    private string Signature() =>
+        $"{router.SelectedInputId}|{router.SelectedDataSourceId}|{router.SelectedPolarPattern}|{router.MicMode}|{router.CaptureChannels}|" +
+        $"{router.BluetoothMode}|{router.UsesVoiceProcessing}|{router.AutomaticGainControl}|" +
+        $"{string.Join(',', router.Inputs.Select(value => value.Name))}|{string.Join(',', router.Outputs.Select(value => value.Name))}";
     public override nint RowsInSection(UITableView tableView, nint section) => 8;
     public override UITableViewCell GetCell(UITableView tableView, NSIndexPath path)
     {